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Bisexual Fun..Tattoos are like sexy signatures

2007-07-19T18:06:00.000-07:00

I'm not sure if you would consider it a bisexual lifestyle, but after thinking about it for a number of years, I decided to get a small tattoo for my 35th birthday. I was really drawn to Japanese artwork, so I chose the Japanese character for woman done in black, and had the artist place two of them on my right shoulder. The reason I wanted two of the characters was that I wanted one to represent my bisexual friend Pamela and the other myself. Now 5 years later on my 40th birthday I felt it was time for another. This time I wanted a Japanese Koi in full colour, and I had it done in Amsterdam by a fantastic artist at Sakura Tattoo. The talented woman at Sakura Tattoo drew up a unique design for me, and it's very sexy!
I love tattoos, they are very sensous and exotic to the eye. Like jewlery that you never take off...it's like finding a hidden treasure. The best tattoos are what I call " flirty"...being able to catch a glimpse..but not the full view...leaves you wanting to see more. It makes me wet to see a beautiful bisexual woman with a pretty design across her lower back...especially with the lowcut jeans that let you see the curves of her ass.

Bisexual Sex Story

2007-07-15T21:30:00.000-07:00

One of my Bisexual Sex Stories
ahhhhh, the feeling of two different mouths, exploring my pussy, what could be better than a hot 3sum? I love to play with two cocks at the same time,getting fucked from behind while sucking Drew's lucsious shaft... and it makes me wet to see him stroke another mans cock and make him so horny that he spurts his hot cum all over my tits. I love to lay between a sexy girls legs and lap her pussy , as she squirms with pleasure. It's so much fun to be able to have sex with whomever you want, without guilt or labels. Are you bi-sexual and in search of new friends and erotic playmates? Come check out my new site: Bisexual Forum

Amsterdam Bisexual Swing Clubs

2007-07-12T22:55:00.000-07:00

One of the perks of visiting or living in Amsterdam is the lively and diverse "Swingers Scene".
For couples or singles it can be a really fun and erotic experience to spend an evening having uninhibited sensual experiences. From showing off, to full- on bisexual orgy, they do it all! The bisexual dating ads are full of other couples looking to hook up. Like a lot of places, there are a lot mor eopenly bisexual women than bisexual men.
Next week I will be reporting on the Best Amsterdam Swing Clubs- it was a fun assignment!

Bisexual Birthday Present

2007-07-08T21:52:00.000-07:00

I turned 40 last week, and celebrated by living out one of my bisexual three some fantasies. One of the gentlemen who responded to our bisexual personal ad, turned out to be a sexy and intelligent Bisexual Aussie, who wanted to play. " Jack" met us for lunch Sunday afternoon, at a local cafe near our apartment. I was immediately turned on by his very fit and muscular body...and of course the charming accent didn't hurt either! We sipped our drinks and chatted for a couple of hours. When we left, it was agreed that we all wanted to get together again. A couple of days later, Jack called and invited us to meet him for dinner. Once again we had a great time, and there was sexual tension developing. Stopping at a coffee shop for an after dinner joint, I was tempted to stroke his cock under the table, but was still a little shy. Walking home, I told Danthat I wanted to have sex with both of them as my birthday present, and he was quick to say that would be a thrill for him also. The day before my birthday, Dan sent Jack an e-mail inviting him to come to our place , and to help me celebrate my 40th with some hot three way bisexual sex. Jack responded quickly that he would love to, and I started getting excited just thinking about the night to come. Two gorgeous bisexual men at the same time? Could I handle it? I was sure going to try!!!
Jack arrived with a bottle of champagne, and I greeted him at the door in just my panties and a tiny camisole. He kissed me and said he liked my outfit. He was wearing jeans that fit his ass perfectly, and a tight t-shirt. Danwas also looking very hot, dressed in black latex gear which drives me crazy! My pussy was instantly wet, and I couldn't wait to get naked. Soon we were all on the couch, with me in the middle , Jack was caressing my feet,and I had my hand on Dan's cock, lightly stroking him through his clothes. Both bisexual men were getting hard, so I made my move. I looked at Dan, winked and then started to take Jack's pants off, pulled his cock out and guided it to my mouth. As I started to suck his luscious shaft, I could see Dan masturbating to full erection. We moved into the bedroom and we continued our bisexual sex party while I sucked Jack while Dan licked my pussy. Wow! this was amazing...I was so turned on that I came quickly, coating Dan's face with my creamy wetness. Jack was moaning, so I grabbed a condom and slid it on his very hard cock. We fucked for a few minutes, until he came hard and fast, collapsing on top of me, totally spent.
Showering later, I masturbated as I fantasized about doing it again...what a rush! I can't wait to have bisexual sex some more next weekend.

Amsterdam Gay Pride

2007-07-02T05:13:00.000-07:00

The infamous Amsterdam Gay Pride Canal Parade took place recently under partly sunny skies. Amsterdam gay Pride Festival draws thousand from acros the EU, crowding the narrow streets and canal bridges of wonderful Amsterdam. In the past, there had been some infighting with the organisers and difficulty in procuring funding for this annual event. Thankfully we hope the bickering has stopped, allowing the show to go on. Although one might expect more open sex and nusity, the conservative Dutch don't exhibit much of the public nudity prevelant in most other Gay Pride Celebrations.

Why can't women admit they want sex?

2007-06-28T08:08:00.000-07:00

I took the time to re-evaluate my personal attitude towards bisexual sex, and how my being a bisexual women guided my choices. Now, things have changed since I had my first bisexual experience at the age of 15, but one constant has remained. I like to have bisexual sex and have no problem admitting it! Unfortunately, most bi women still can't say that they want, enjoy or need sexual satisfaction as much as a bisexual men. Why is this? It's simple,because we have been trained not to. Through a combination of religious guilt,lack of sexual education, societal repression, along with tribal genital mutilation, rape, and incest to name a few deterrents, bisexual women have still to share fully in the glory of orgasmic,consentual sex. Being a bisexual female myself, I have had to overcome some of these obstacles. It's only in the past 5 years, that I have been able to achieve a fully satisfying orgasm with either a female or male partner. It took a lot of work, to learn to relax and not worry about what others thought, to realise that having fantasies is normal and healthy, and that I deserved to have an orgasm...every time! If we as women don't speak up and say what we want, how will we ever get it? I'm so tired of girls that pretend they don't care...or that they are not interested.
During my period of "bisexual awakening", I started to visit sex stores and ask questions on how the various toys worked,and what kind of pleasure they would provide. It felt weird at first to pick up fake penis's that vibrated or plastic balls that you put up your ass, but eventually I became comfortable and had fun with it. I started to watch more pornography, going to the video store myself and picking it out, reading erotic literature and masturbating when it made me horny. Suddenly bi-sex became an integral part of my life and I wanted to become a better bisexual lover. I also became more selective when choosing a bisexual partner, making sure that they were able to provide me with sexual pleasures, and not being afraid to ask for what I needed. I have become intrigued by "roleplay" and sometimes take the more masculine approach and fuck my partner, instead of them fucking me! What a turn-on!
So all in all, turning 40 and being a bisexual female who is confident and secure within my own bisexuality, has been a fantastic journey. My only wish is for more women to step up and say how they feel, and take what they want...without succombing to the " norms" of modern society.

Personal Ads part 2

2007-06-25T19:17:00.000-07:00

span style="font-family:arial;">The bisexual dating saga continues.... Earlier this week Dan and I went on our second bisexual date to meet an American man who had responded to our ad in the Amsterdam Weekly. We had arranged to meet him at a local coffeeshop in our neighbourhood. " Jimmy" was 38 yrs old, scruffy and in need of a haircut. Not much like the picture he had supplied. After a few beers and a couple of big joints....the conversation was sadly lacking and I was not feeling any chemistry at all. We idly chatted but it was very clear that he had misrepresented himself, so I nudged Dan under the table and made an excuse to leave. Another one bites the dust!
Meanwhile we are still getting lots of e-mails but are trying to become more diligent about "reading between the lines"...but how much can you tell from a digital photo and some MSN chat? Meeting other sexy bisexual people can be a challenge. How will you know if it is going to be worth your while to set up a meeting?
In reality, you just have to take the chance and hope that eventually the sparks will fly and nature will take it's course.
We have placed another bisexual personal ad in the weekly and have received a few more responses from people who seem to be what we are looking for......so I will keep you posted and let you know what happens.

Bi-Sexual Porn Stars

2006-07-23T04:32:00.000-07:00

Nothing is more erotic to me than watching two hot and sexy women make out on film...especially when they happen to be either Jenna Jameson or Janine Lindemulder. These two bi-sexual adult film stars make me so horny when I see them eagerly licking a wet pussy to ectasy.

Jenna Jameson is one of the most famous female porn stars in the world, sometimes given the unofficial title "The Queen of Porn". This beautiful vixen has over 100 porn related videos to her credit. Jenna has stated that the best relationship she ever had was her lesbian love affair with retired porn actress Nikki Tyler, which she documents in her steamy autobiography. . The two were together off and on for several years and reportedly remain close friends to this day.
In August of 2005, she launched Club Thrust, an interactive website for her gay fans, which includes videos, galleries, sex advice, gossip, and downloads. Jameson is one of the few actresses in straight porn to have developed a following among gay audiences, her intense passion toward her female co-stars shines through in every scene. Jenna has won numerous awards for her All-girl sex scenes and is featured as the voice of the sultry Candy Suxxx in Grand Theft Auto, 2002.
I love her in The Devil in Miss Jones, with Savanna Samson….very HOT!!!!

Janine Marie Lindemulder is an American Exotic Dancer and porn film actress, best known for her work in U.S. films (typically credited as just Janine). Lindemulder made her debut in adult films in the 1992 movie Andrew Blakes Hidden Obsessions . She quickly became a leading actress in adult films and was known for the unusual reservation of only having sex with women on film, an agreement she had with her husband. Lindemulder became involved in a long-term lesbian relationship with porn actress Julia Ann, and the two women formed the exotic dancing act Blondage. They toured the strip club circuit, finding the duo act to be very lucrative. Besides performing in the adult industry Lindemulder also appeared in the movie Private Parts and in a few music videos. Lindemulder, along with fellow adult film actress Nikki Tyler, accompanied shock jock Howard Stern on one of his appearances on The Tonight Show, where she titillated the audience by embracing and kissing Tyler. Janine recently won an award for her all-girl sex scene in the 2006 film “ Pirates”.

Amsterdam Gay Pride Festival 2006

2006-07-20T14:30:00.000-07:00

As one of the largest Pride festivals in Europe, Amsterdam Gay Pride attracts gay, lesbian and bi-sexual people from all over the world. They come here to party on what promises to be one of the city's busiest week-ends of the entire year . The August 2006 Gay Pride runs from August 4th-August 6th, with some pre-activities starting on the 2nd. A diverse venue , encompassing many bars and nightclubs to host the many themed galas The Infamous Juice Cruise is held on the Ocean Diva, reputed to be the largest party boat in Europe. For the more artistic the Outdoor Pride Film Festival offers viewers a chance to experience gay and lesbian cinema. The crowning glory of course is the Canal Parade, held on Saturday afternoon featuring 100 decorated boats, dripping with sexy men and women clad in skimpy costumes... or playing dress-up! Each year over 350,000 spectators line the Prinsengracht canal and Amstel River to watch this erotic fantasy unfold before their eyes.
Outdoor Pride Street parties for women are held on Paardenstraat , outside of Vivelavie, a very popular lesbian bar both Friday and Saturday nights. Another great place to stop in for a drink is Saarein, a funky little
bar on Elandsstraat 119. It has quickly become a frequent stop for me to enjoy a cold beer, shoot a game of pool or chat with one of the friendly bartenders. And the best part is it's " smoker friendly" which automatically gives it the thumbs up from me!!!
Here is the link for the official Amsterdam Gay Pride site:

http://http://www.amsterdamgaypride.nl/

Girls, Girls, Girls.... Can I play too?

Coming out of the closet?

2006-07-16T03:23:00.000-07:00

Wow, not sure if it is the season, but suddenly I am getting lots of response to my query for erotic playmates. It has been more single men, but a few couples have expressed an interest also. Now herein lies the problem....sure most of these people seem "nice"....but are they sexually attractive? How do you determine from a photograph or brief e-mail wether or not there is a " spark"? and if there is chemistry....how do you make it work 4 ways?
Obviously there are no clear answers , so the only way to find out is to experiment. I just wish that there were more girls willing to admit that they are turned on by another womans body, instead of being jealous or bitchy about it. Fortunatley most of the women that are involved in the swingers lifestyle, are very confident sexually and not scared to admire a pretty pussy. When I post on RedClouds amateur porn site, I receive a lot of comments from women who openly express their desire to make love to me with or without my partner. So where are the rest of these girls hiding?
It still boggles my mind that being a Gay Man is totally accepted , but being a bi-girl or guy is still a big taboo...so to speak.
So ladies, don't be shy.....speak up! If you want your pussy to be licked by a soft and sensous women.....go for it....you might even want to do it gain...and again...and again....

Double dates...

2006-07-14T02:31:00.000-07:00

It finally happened, my first " double date" with my boyfriend to go meet another potential playmate. As I was getting dressed, I experienced a twinge of nervousness...after all this was a little strange . Drew was teasing me asking if I was ready for our blind date. I had a toke before we left to take the edge off, and headed out to meet our on-line British friend. We had arranged to meet at a local coffeeshop, one of the few that has a liquor license ( yes, I"ll be in need of a drink). When we arrived, " G" was waiting for us with a beer in hand. He looked exactly like his picture, tall, slim and had stunning blue eyes. As we all sat and talked I noticed his hands were shaking , when I asked if he was nervous he said he was a bit. After a couple of drinks and a big joint, it was apparent that we all got along but there was no real sexual chemistry between the three of us, but I could tell that he found me attractive. When it came time to say good-night, Drew told him to send us an e-mail after the week-end, to keep in touch. Although we didn't make a physical connection, he was still a cool guy that would be fun to hang out with in the future.
Overall, for the first time it was reassuring to know that we will be able to meet some "normal" people that want to share this type of sexual lifestyle.

Personal ads..part 2

2006-07-12T06:32:00.000-07:00

The saga continues in the search for bi-sexual playmates. I mentioned that I had received some responses from the Amsterdam weekly ad. We have e-mailed back and forth, exchanged pictures and now are planning to meet . The man is British, younger and single, the lady who responded is also young, married and will be bringing her husband to our "date". She is very attractive, and her husband is cute too, so I am looking forward to meeting them.
I have another ad placed on Craiglist looking for girls that are coming for Gay Pride, so far one response. When I tried to reply, the e-mail addy was incorrect.
One other source that I have utilized in my exhausting search for truly bi-sexual girls is an amateur porn site called The Voyeurweb, with a more explicit pay site called RedClouds. Being a former exotic dancer ( years ago) , I have always been very comfortable posing nude and love to flaunt for the camera. My boyfriend gets a thrill out of our photo sessions and we post different series of erotic photos on both these sites. They have a bulletin board with different threads going, with such themes as fetish, gay,lesbian and bi, explicit ect..it's a great way to interact with others who share the same kinks or desires. I have been getting quite a few offers from men who want to come and play...and occasionally a hot girl...but it's still not what I truly want.
I love my boyfriend with all my heart, he's incredible but he can't provide the one thing I'm missing.
That touch, the softness and allure of a female....

Personal Ads...do they work?

2006-07-10T13:15:00.000-07:00

My boyfriend and I have posted several personal ads in the past few months looking for other couples to swing with. We have had a few responses but not many that fit the criteria we were looking for. The majority of the women in the swing lifestyle...aren't really bi-sexual and don't really want to go down on another girl... so I started posting as a bi-sexual girl that was in an open relationship, that wanted to have a female lover. Still not much luck...most of my responses were from women in foreign countries...pretty girls but not accessible. So once again, we placed an ad in the Amsterdam weekly, shortly after arriving. Three weeks later we received two e-mails in the same afternoon, one from a single guy and another from a bi-sexual dutch girl. They both seemed intelligent so I replied to each of them with a photo of myself and Drew and an invitation to meet for a drink. I'll let you know what happens.
After all, Drew and I are an extremely sexy couple, so who would not want to play with us?

Where are all the girls in Amsterdam?

2006-07-09T10:40:00.000-07:00

For the past two week-ends, I have been searching out all the "women friendly" bars in Amsterdam. Well, it didn't take long to find them since there are only 4 all together. The" You 11 Bar "is a gay disco, Sarrein is a funky mixed cafe, and Custom Cafe Sugar seems to be the only Lesbian venue in town. This is very disappointing considering there is an entire section of town relegated to men's bars and saunas.
So where the hell are the girly girls supposed to go?
In this day and age with so many bi-sexual girls being open, why is there still no place for us to party and fit in? The lesbians don't want much to do with us, gay men are awesome to party with but they don't have a pussy, straight girls are intimidated by us....it's a never ending circle of frustration.
For months before I moved to Amsterdam, I prowled the internet in search of dating sites where I could post as bi-sexual. I thought this would be easy...was I wrong!!! I thought I had found a good place to post a personal add through TangoWire, Girls DatingGirls. I signed up for a 3 month membership at the sum of $45.00 American. With this I would be able to send and receive e-mails from other members. What a waste of time and money...I could not fill out the required profile forms the way I wanted to. Apparently, according to their member requests, the site was no longer welcoming bi-sexual women...I discovered this after paying for this crap!
When I sent an e-mail to the site, explaining my dissatisfaction, within 10 minutes I received a " fuck you" message back from them and then they disabled my account without refunding my money.
Bitter? You bet I am.....all I was trying to do was be honest and find a girl to have some fun with.
So the moral of this seems to be, it's ok to be gay, it's ok to be a lesbian, or a heterosexual but it's still not ok to be bi-sexual...because nobody can figure out what kind of category to fit us into. The over dependence of labels in our society has made it impossible for people ...just to be people.

Bi-sexual Dating Myths Dispelled

2006-07-07T09:22:00.000-07:00

As a bi-sexual women, I can't even begin to imagine how many times I have had to explain to a man...that I'm not looking for a threesome with him and another girl. ARGHHHHH!!!! It really pisses me off and usually means the date will end with the unlucky bastard going home by himself.
I consider myself to be an honest person and am very open regarding my sexuality. Unfortunately this can sometimes create complications, and unwanted advances. I get so tired of having to explain that even though I like both boys and girls, I only date one at a time. For some strange reason society has seen fit to portray anybody who is not latently heterosexual to be somewhat "kinky" or "perverted", and this leads to an assumption of promiscuity. Let's get real people, we are not all a bunch of sexcrazed maniacs running around screwing everyone we meet.....although that might have been the reality 20 years ago, the onset of AIDS and public education regarding sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy has helped somewhat to curb the "free love" attitude of the 1960's.
Now I love sex as much as anybody else...maybe even more sometimes, but when I make a commitment to someone, I am choosing to have sex with them only unless there is an understanding regarding other lovers. This works for some couples, but it does take excellent communication and real love to make this type of relationship work.

A kinky girl's adventures in Amsterdam

2006-07-06T09:24:00.000-07:00

Hi, I'm Micki and I'm bi-sexual.
According to the Merriam-Websters Medical Dictionary, the word bi-sexual is an adjective that describes a person who is sexually attracted to both sexes, or having an ambiguous identity. Since ambiguous means unclear or indeterminate...it makes me very sad to be labeled as such a person.
I know exactly what I want, I am not unclear. I see the beauty in both men and women, wether there sexuality is gay, heterosexual, lesbian or transgendered. I consider myself to be an erotic and sensual person who is free to have intimate encounters with whomever I choose regardless of their sex.
Sounds great right? Then why is it so difficult to connect with others that are also bi-sexual. Although it has become acceptable and even fashionable for females to have sex with each other, Madonna is a great example of this, it is still a problem for men to enjoy the same freedom. The media, including cable television have made gay men the darlings of the sitcom but have you ever seen a bi-sexual man be featured? not likely...
Karen from Will and Grace is openly hittting on women all the time, but even so she is one of the few actresses playing a bi-sexual female character. I thought " The L Word" was finally going to have some strong female bi-sexuals but now even they have turned into full blown lesbians.
For the past 20 years, I have been on the fringes, I don't fit into the lesbian culture, I don't fit in the" straight" culture and I certainly don't fit in the homo-sexual culture. So where do people like us belong?
I have started this blog so that I might connect with other truly bi-sexual persons who share the same frustrations as I do. This will be a safe place to discuss sexuality, eroticisim, health issues whatever I feel like writing about as it happens to me. I'd like to know what kind of dating sites people use, how many post on amateur porn sites, what kind of sex-toys do other girls use on each other...ect...
Feel free to leave a comment and a suggestion of what you would like me to write about and check back for daily updates.