Why can't women admit they want sex?
I took the time to re-evaluate my personal attitude towards bisexual sex, and how my being a bisexual women guided my choices. Now, things have changed since I had my first bisexual experience at the age of 15, but one constant has remained. I like to have bisexual sex and have no problem admitting it! Unfortunately, most bi women still can't say that they want, enjoy or need sexual satisfaction as much as a bisexual men. Why is this? It's simple,because we have been trained not to. Through a combination of religious guilt,lack of sexual education, societal repression, along with tribal genital mutilation, rape, and incest to name a few deterrents, bisexual women have still to share fully in the glory of orgasmic,consentual sex. Being a bisexual female myself, I have had to overcome some of these obstacles. It's only in the past 5 years, that I have been able to achieve a fully satisfying orgasm with either a female or male partner. It took a lot of work, to learn to relax and not worry about what others thought, to realise that having fantasies is normal and healthy, and that I deserved to have an orgasm...every time! If we as women don't speak up and say what we want, how will we ever get it? I'm so tired of girls that pretend they don't care...or that they are not interested.
During my period of "bisexual awakening", I started to visit sex stores and ask questions on how the various toys worked,and what kind of pleasure they would provide. It felt weird at first to pick up fake penis's that vibrated or plastic balls that you put up your ass, but eventually I became comfortable and had fun with it. I started to watch more pornography, going to the video store myself and picking it out, reading erotic literature and masturbating when it made me horny. Suddenly bi-sex became an integral part of my life and I wanted to become a better bisexual lover. I also became more selective when choosing a bisexual partner, making sure that they were able to provide me with sexual pleasures, and not being afraid to ask for what I needed. I have become intrigued by "roleplay" and sometimes take the more masculine approach and fuck my partner, instead of them fucking me! What a turn-on!
So all in all, turning 40 and being a bisexual female who is confident and secure within my own bisexuality, has been a fantastic journey. My only wish is for more women to step up and say how they feel, and take what they want...without succombing to the " norms" of modern society.
During my period of "bisexual awakening", I started to visit sex stores and ask questions on how the various toys worked,and what kind of pleasure they would provide. It felt weird at first to pick up fake penis's that vibrated or plastic balls that you put up your ass, but eventually I became comfortable and had fun with it. I started to watch more pornography, going to the video store myself and picking it out, reading erotic literature and masturbating when it made me horny. Suddenly bi-sex became an integral part of my life and I wanted to become a better bisexual lover. I also became more selective when choosing a bisexual partner, making sure that they were able to provide me with sexual pleasures, and not being afraid to ask for what I needed. I have become intrigued by "roleplay" and sometimes take the more masculine approach and fuck my partner, instead of them fucking me! What a turn-on!
So all in all, turning 40 and being a bisexual female who is confident and secure within my own bisexuality, has been a fantastic journey. My only wish is for more women to step up and say how they feel, and take what they want...without succombing to the " norms" of modern society.
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